Is there hope after infidelity? Janis says yes. And that having an affair might even be ... well not a good thing but maybe something that had to happen. It might have occurred because the couple took their eye off the ball.
What was the original contract when they got together. All too often there is no contract... just the "love".
Well, that's clearly not enough and the more I think about it the more I realise that our education system is just not up to the mark.
The way back is in both the couple's hands.... the one who cheated must be clear about their intent to repair and restore trust and the one cheated on has to be open to the idea. This is very hard work and many couples are not able to face the rigour of forgiving, let alone changing their habits that lead to breaking up.
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